Spring Cleaning for Your Divorce


Spring Cleaning for Your Divorce

Spring is here at last and maybe you’ve got the itch to do some spring cleaning. When you are going through a divorce you may feel the urge to make some big changes at home as you either move into your own place or reclaim the marital home as your own independent space. Before you begin wildly throwing things out, consider these tips.

  • Preserve your spouse’s belongings. As much as you might love the thought of tossing your ex’s baseball collection or high heels onto the front lawn or into a dumpster, don’t purposely destroy or throw away your spouse’s items until your attorney gives you the all clear. If you are still working through your property settlement, those items will have to be returned. Even if your divorce has just been finalized, there must be a reasonable period of time for your ex to come and get his or her belongings.
  • Keep important papers. You would not likely toss birth certificates, passports, and deeds, but in your thrill at having a fresh start you might be tempted to get rid of bills, reports, statements, and receipts related to your marriage. It is important to keep all documentation related to your tax returns for 7 years and you need to be certain to keep whatever is needed to file this year’s tax return. If you don’t want reminders of your marriage in plain sight, store these documents in a plastic container in an attic or garage.
  • Rearrangement makes everything fresh. If you’re still living in the marital home and want it to feel completely different, you can make it your own space simply by rearranging furniture, or even swapping rooms (making the dining room the living room and vice versa). Changes like these can give you emotional ownership without spending a dime.

At DeTorres & DeGeorge, your future is our focus. Call us today for advice and representation in Somerset and Warren counties and surrounding areas of New Jersey.

Divorce Guide
About DeTorres and DeGeorge Family Law

DeTorres and DeGeorge Family Law is a New Jersey based family law firm that has been helping New Jersey residents achieve the best possible results in their divorce for nearly 30 years. The DeTorres and DeGeorge Family Law team is always ready to fight for their clients’ rights – determined to help New Jersey families overcome legal challenges from start to finish. Our legal team, with over 65 years of combined experience, provides expert guidance on all family law and divorce-related matters, including custody and parenting time, alimony and child support, equitable distribution of assets, premarital agreements, post-divorce issues, executive compensation distribution, divorces for business owners, and divorce mediation. The firm has been recognized for its dedication and expertise in the industry by multiple local and national organizations, including Super Lawyers, Law Firm 500, and the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys. Rosanne DeTorres, Managing Partner, is one of 150 lawyers certified as a matrimonial law attorney.

Erin D. DeGeorge
Erin D. DeGeorge joined DeTorres & DeGeorge, LLC as partner to the firm in June of 2010. Prior to joining DeTorres & DeGeorge, Erin was associated with the national firm of Fox Rothschild LLP and Cutler, Simeone, Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, LLC...
Tagged with: , ,
Share on:

knowledge & insights

Road sign displaying marriage one way and divorce the other way.

Signs You Are Ready For Divorce

It’s not easy admitting that your marriage is over. It’s not easy making the decision to move forward. Many times though, staying in a loveless marriage or a marriage where you and your spouse have moved in different directions isn’t an option. So, how do you know when you are ready for a...

September 2, 2021 Read More

Graphic displaying a father and mother discussing a parenting plan.

Parenting Plan Modification

Parents can’t relax just because they have a custody order and a well-crafted parenting plan. Circumstances often change. The children develop new needs. Divorced spouses develop new relationships. Changes to an existing parenting plan may be necessary. Parents can agree to a parenting plan...

July 20, 2021 Read More

Husband yelling at wife while she covers her ears.

Divorcing an Emotionally Abusive Husband

Divorcing an emotionally abusive husband requires a lot of preparation and hard work. You need to admit that your spouse is being abusive. Abuse isn’t just limited to physical abuse. There are many types of emotional abuse that don’t leave physical scars but do leave psychological scars. You...

July 15, 2021 Read More

Divorce: The Answers you Need – Before, During & After

Download our eBook today!

  • This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.


  • This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.

follow us