Gray Divorce


Gray Divorce

A recent article in The Journal of Gerontology reported that the rate of divorce among older Americans is on the rise, with 1 in 4 people over the age of 50 getting divorced, a rate that has doubled in the last 20 years. Divorce in this age group is increasing because:

  • People over 50 are more likely to be in a second (or later) marriage, which has higher rates of divorce.
  • An empty nest can make a couple realize they have nothing in common once their children are gone.
  • Couples who stay together for their children tend to divorce once those children leave.
  • The increase in age expectancies means people have more years in which to divorce.

Getting a divorce after 50 can be daunting if you had planned on growing old together. Planning for a future on your own can be distressing and feel overwhelming. Suddenly you are planning for a single future, one that may be very different from what you had envisioned for yourself. There are many factors you need to think about when you divorce at this stage of life.

  • Retirement planning. It is important to meet with a financial advisor and create a new retirement plan for your future. Your divorce will likely divide some retirement accounts and include provisions for Social Security Income, so it is important that you understand what you will have to live off of and how long it will last you.
  • Senior living needs. You might have thought that you and your ex were going to take care of each other for many years. Now that you are single, it is important to give some thought to how you will get the care you may need in your older years. A long-term care specialist can help you assess your options.
  • Your budget. You may not be able to remain in the marital home and even if you do, your monthly budget is likely to be significantly lower. Your attorney can discuss alimony (spousal support) and how it may impact you. Planning a budget that will meet your current needs is an important part of working through your divorce.

When you are facing a divorce at any age, DeTorres & DeGeorge is ready to provide compassionate representation. We serve Pittstown, New Jersey and the surrounding areas. Call us today at 908-284-6005 to discuss your case.

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About DeTorres and DeGeorge Family Law

DeTorres and DeGeorge Family Law is a New Jersey based family law firm that has been helping New Jersey residents achieve the best possible results in their divorce for nearly 30 years. The DeTorres and DeGeorge Family Law team is always ready to fight for their clients’ rights – determined to help New Jersey families overcome legal challenges from start to finish. Our legal team, with over 65 years of combined experience, provides expert guidance on all family law and divorce-related matters, including custody and parenting time, alimony and child support, equitable distribution of assets, premarital agreements, post-divorce issues, executive compensation distribution, divorces for business owners, and divorce mediation. The firm has been recognized for its dedication and expertise in the industry by multiple local and national organizations, including Super Lawyers, Law Firm 500, and the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys. Rosanne DeTorres, Managing Partner, is one of 150 lawyers certified as a matrimonial law attorney.

Carolyn B. Hand
Carolyn Hand is a passionate and experienced litigator specializing in family law. In 2020, she was named partner at DeTorres & DeGeorge Family Law. Carolyn represents clients in family court in all matters pertaining to divorce, custody...
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