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Restart Your Life After Divorce

Getting through a divorce may seem to take every bit of strength you think you have. When you emerge on the other side you may feel uncertain about your future. Your divorce may have been draining and hard but you now have the opportunity to make a fresh start.

Before you do anything drastic, get a handle on what your budget is moving forward. How much money do you have coming in each month and what are your regular bills and payments that you must make? Creating a budget will allow you to determine how much discretionary income you actually have, and it may also help you find places where you can cut costs.

Think about what you want for your life. What are your goals? What will make you a happy person? It’s time to really think about who you want to be and how you can get there. This might mean trying new activities, learning new skills, changing the way you interact with the people in your life, or finding new friends.

If you’ve been contemplating big changes such as going back to school, changing careers, or moving out of state, this may be the perfect time to do it. Take the change that you’ve been handed and build on it.

You might be ready to start dating, or you might find you need some time. There are lots of ways to meet people when you are ready. You can ask friends to introduce you to other singles. Online dating is a popular way to begin dating. You can also begin spending time with friends who are also looking to date, at parties, clubs, and athletic events.

At DeTorres & DeGeorge, your future is our focus. We’re ready to talk about your divorce today.

About DeTorres and DeGeorge Family Law

DeTorres and DeGeorge Family Law is a New Jersey based family law firm that has been helping New Jersey residents achieve the best possible results in their divorce for nearly 30 years. The DeTorres and DeGeorge Family Law team is always ready to fight for their clients’ rights – determined to help New Jersey families overcome legal challenges from start to finish. Our legal team, with over 65 years of combined experience, provides expert guidance on all family law and divorce-related matters, including custody and parenting time, alimony and child support, equitable distribution of assets, premarital agreements, post-divorce issues, executive compensation distribution, divorces for business owners, and divorce mediation. The firm has been recognized for its dedication and expertise in the industry by multiple local and national organizations, including Super Lawyers, Law Firm 500, and the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys. Rosanne DeTorres, Managing Partner, is one of 150 lawyers certified as a matrimonial law attorney.

Caitlin DeGuilo Toker
Caitlin DeGuilo Toker joined DeTorres and DeGeorge as an associate attorney in June 2014 and was named a partner of the firm in May 2019.Prior to joining the firm, Caitlin was associated with law firms specializing in the practice of family ...
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